Smoochy had a car accident a few weeks ago. The other driver was at fault – though she was denying it. We’ve been waiting for a ruling from her insurance company, and they’ve finally decided that they’re going to accept liability. They’ve also told us that they’re going to total Smoochy’s car out. It’s a 1996 VW Jetta that I bought shortly after we got married. When we married, we agreed that we wouldn’t have more than one car note at a time, and that I would drive the “new” family car, and Smoochy would drive my old car. So, when they said they were going to total it out, I was all panicked and freaked out because we are not in a situation to pay two car notes right now, and I just couldn’t see how we were going to get a decent car with the amount they’re offering for the VW.
Smoochy, on the other hand, said “that is so awesome that they’re going to total the VW out. I think the transmission was about to go out and I knew we didn’t have the money to pay a second car note. God allowed me to have an acccident where the other driver was at fault, and since my air bag inflated and I have some minor skin burns, we’ll get a little money for that in addition to what they’re going to pay for the car. I’m thinking that I’ll be able to pay cash for a decent used car that I can drive around the city until we’ve paid your truck off and it’s time for a “new” car for you.”
I am amazed at how his perspective is such a positive one, while I on the other hand was a few seconds away from gnashing my teeth and wailing. I have got to work on two things: my faith and my perspective.